Sportsmanship...It's Up to Every One of Us!

BY Romanda Noble-Watson and Dr. Curtrell Rhodan ON September 11, 2025 | 2025, HST, SEPTEMBER

Sportsmanship is the foundation of every great athletic experience. At all levels of play – but especially in high school sports — it is the most important value that athletes, coaches, parents and spectators can uphold. Sportsmanship isn’t just about playing fair or following the rules; it’s about demonstrating respect, integrity, humility and teamwork, regardless of the final score. When student-athletes are taught these values early, they carry them into adulthood – not only as athletes, but as responsible and respectful individuals in everyday life.

Many people believe that sportsmanship naturally develops in young athletes. While that may be partially true, the reality is that the intense emotions tied to competition can often cloud judgment. In the heat of the moment, players, coaches or spectators may act out of frustration, disappointment or even overexcitement. This is why it’s essential to implement strong, consistent sportsmanship initiatives in schools. These initiatives provide student-athletes with tools and strategies to manage emotions, make respectful decisions and uphold the spirit of the game.

Athletic organizations and educational institutions across the country have recognized the importance of sportsmanship and have taken meaningful steps to promote it. They understand that the lessons learned through athletics can shape students’ character, their academic performance and their interactions off the field as well. Schools have a unique opportunity – and responsibility – to lead by example and create a culture where good sportsmanship is not only encouraged, but expected.

Below are several steps that can help develop and strengthen sportsmanship initiatives:

1. Identify Stakeholders
Begin with identifying the individuals and groups who play a role in shaping the sports culture of the school and community. These stakeholders are essential partners in promoting and modeling good sportsmanship:

Student-Athletes – As the heart of any athletic program, students must learn the value of respect, effort and humility.

Parents – Their attitude in the stands and at home can either reinforce or undermine the values being taught on the field.

Coaches – As mentors and role models, coaches have a direct impact on student behavior and team culture.

Officials – Their authority and decisions must be respected to ensure fairness and the smooth operation of the game.

Spectators – The behavior of fans sets the tone for the event and should reflect the school’s commitment to respect and positivity.

2. Education and Awareness
Teach the stakeholders what sportsmanship looks like – both on and off the field. Help them understand how their behavior impacts the athletic experience and contributes to the initiative’s success.

3. Rally the Stakeholders
Provide the stakeholders with a clear, manageable objective for the initiative:

  • Foster a “we’re in this together” mindset.

  • Promote initiatives frequently through social media and other sources including newsletters, school websites and announcements.

  • Use memorable hashtags and consistent messaging to spread awareness of the initiative.

4. Positive Reinforcement
Recognize and reward acts of good sportsmanship to reinforce their value and encourage others to follow suit.

5. Community Involvement
Extend the initiative beyond school walls by involving feeder schools and the larger community. Building a culture of respect and integrity starts early and grows stronger when supported by everyone.

By taking these steps, schools can create an environment where sportsmanship is not only taught but lived out daily. It becomes a core part of the school’s identity – something students, families and staff can be proud of. More importantly, it helps develop responsible, respectful individuals who know how to handle success and adversity with grace.

Always remember: it is important to win with grace and lose with dignity.

Sportsmanship – it’s up to all of us!

Romanda Noble-Watson is director of communications and public relations for the South Carolina High School League and is a member of the High School Today Publications Committee.

Dr. Curtrell Rhodan, is director of educational services for the South Carolina High School League.

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